Hello ladies! 
I hope you’re all doing great! 2015 is here, and my new years resolution from a few years back to start a book is in high gear. I’m dedicating it to all you ladies who read this blog, show support and general love on my page. I love writing, despite not doing it on here much these days. (ONE post last year. Ah!)  My goal is that within the end of the year, I’ll have a “go to” guide on the sugar lifestyle available through amazon. Some of the topics on here and in the book will interlope, but I plan to add a lot of the questions I’ve been asked. (Don’t worry, I’ll never publish a name!)

Comment below and let me know of any one line topics you’d like me to include in my book. (Example: How to deal with a SD’s wife) etc! Even add in quotes you feel relate to the sugar bowl!

I miss and love all your beautiful souls!


My [NOT] So Secret Life

It’s been so long since I sat down with you ladies and had an actual conversation. 


As many of you may (or may not?) know, I’ve never made money off my blog. I never felt it was appropriate to make money off of it, but I did aspire to make a book. Writing has been my passion my whole life, so perhaps in the future I will finally publish a book for the sugars out there. 

Right now, however, I’ve been more focused on my career and current sugar daddy. Due to how popular this blog has become (Seriously, google sugar baby blog! I’m so surprised this ever happened and thank you to ALL those who link others to me!) my sugar daddy has requested that I don’t post about him at all.  Maybe one day I will share! 😉

I’m living back in New York, and I’m doing well for all you who have been wondering. I’ll try and update you all, and possibly post when I can, but, for the most part, this blog is a chapter of my life that’s been closed for now. Again, maybe I’ll have a book one day! Until then stay safe. I love you all! ❤ 

I’m Not Attracted To My Sugar Daddy

One of the most frequent questions I get is along the lines of:

“My sugar daddy is not attractive, but he’s willing to give me a generous amount of money. What should I do?” It was also a common Q&A Wednesday question when I used to still do those for my blog.  Unfortunately, Q&A Wednesday posts weren’t very searchable and questions I’d answered were still asked.  I think this deserves a blog post anyway, as it’s such a strong question.

So what do you do if you potential sugar daddy looks like this?


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Note to All!

I’ve completely updated the FAQ and How To (and fixed most links)  I also noticed how much I HAVEN’T posted that were either drafts or I THOUGHT I did. So, a lot more posts WILL be coming. There are important SB topics I never covered that should have been. (A draft on taxes was made a few years a go!!)  That being said, I’ve always got rid of the email “thedailylifeofasb”at gmail. I was receiving too much junk mail. It’s now contactelsy(at)gmail[dot]c0|\/|  … You can send questions there! 🙂 However, I will no longer be reviewing profiles. Thanks!

It’s nearly 9:30 where I live now, but I’ve been editing my blog for the past four hours and looking through old posts. I can’t believe I’ve had this blog for so long!

That being said, I also reviewed the comments. A few months a go, I got a lot of encouragement from you girls encouraging me to keep going. That’s what I’m attempting to do. I’m cleaning up my FAQ section and fixing broken links and adding more FAQ’s in that section. About me and the contact section is now updated also. I’m probably going to go back and delete the Q&A Wednesdays, though, and just make separate posts for the important questions.

Even if I stop blogging now, at least this site will be all cleared up. 🙂