Awhile a go I met some other sugar babies from NYC who varied from extremely into this lifestyle to just considering it. Yolanda*, a girl who was just starting out in the sugar bowl became a good friend of mine, who I was able to “mentor” for the first few months of her SB lifestyle.
Unfortunately, Yolanda and I lost touch after awhile. With our lives going our own way, and her moving to California, our weekly dinners were scattered to weekly Facebook messages, which then turned into when ever we had the chance messages. However, Yolanda sent me a message a couple of days a go to let me know she would be back in New York for a couple of weeks, and asked if I would like to meet up with her. Of course I jumped at the opportunity.
We met at the old coffee place I worked at and sat down to discuss life. Yolanda is no longer a sugar baby, which surprised me, but she ended up admitting (after much probing) to me why she ultimately decided to go on her sugar strike.
Yolanda met an interesting pot in California when she moved there. The pot seemed like a decent catch. His allowance was decent enough, and although his personality wasn’t marriage material, he was a decent enough guy. She ended up seeing this guy for a couple of months, until she started noticing small bumps – which ended up genital warts… Yolanda ended up getting HPV from her SD, which she cut off contact from immediately.
Yes, HPV may be nothing compaired to AIDS, in your mind, but HPV can cause cervical cancer – or what if he had an STD that couldn’t be treated?
This subject should be brought into light more often. Another Sugar Baby had recently brought this subject up with me awhile a go, and I had been meaning to post about it ever since, but I just seem to forget. Ladies, please use protection. A mans money doesn’t protect him from STD’s or the serious risks it can bring. He may have been infected by a cheating wife, or another sugar baby, and just not realize it.
Read up on STD’s and look up the serious risks. Get educated ladies!
*All names have been changed to protect the identity of people in this story