Tip of the Day: Different Folks Different Strokes

I often see the question pop up “Do I need to be perfect / pretty / skinny / European etc. to be a sugar baby?  No darling, you don’t. First of all, not all men like skinny blondes who have DD breasts. I only have a C, I’m definitely not a blonde, and I consider myself quite plain. I don’t possess any special talent, or anything incredibly unique.  If you didn’t know me, I’d just be another face in the crowd. I’m not any kind of Pocahontas or Sleeping Beauty by any means.

Remember that everybody is different.  Everyone has a type.  A friend of mine in Paris is a skinny and relatively pretty girl, however, she loves chubbier or “husky” men over a muscled man. I prefer men who are over 5’10, have dark brown hair (or peppery gray) who are older than 35.  I am not attracted to French men for some reason. In women, I prefer lighter colored hair, small to medium frame, long hair, short! 🙂  My preferences can change every month though when I find new things I like or dislike.

How you look will be a factor in any relationship, but keep in mind that you need to be confidant above all!

Personality will also be a huge factor. Are you busty and blonde but have no sense of humor? You’re SD won’t stick around for long if you are.

Stay positive ladies. 🙂


Tip of the Day! Flying to Meet Sugar Daddies!

Please girls, seriously be careful when considering flying to meet a sugar daddy… If possible…  Let him come too you!

  • Even if you think you know somebody online, you could be sorely mistaken. It’s always better to play is safe than sorry.  People can lie about their identities.
  • Unless you have lived or visited the area ( a lot ) where he will be bringing you, you wont know your way around. If anything bad were to happen, would you know where to go and who to go too?
  • You want to leave sooner than intended, but he decides to keep you longer than you bargained for. I recently read a post of a girl who wanted to leave early when she visited her POT SD. Thankfully he sent her home. What scared me was that he could have “held her hostage” until it was her time to leave.
  • If he was a real gentlemen, he would come to you. Not the other way around.
  • A lot of you don’t tell your family and friends about your SD.  I have friends who have met up with SD’s and not told their friends and families at the time.  If you don’t let your family/friends know where you are and who you’re with, they wont know how to help you if you go missing. If you cannot tell family or friends, at least write a note or have a anon friend to send your information if you’re not back by 24 hours of your designated time to go home!

Girls. I know this is on a more serious note and probably seems pretentious and annoying. I understand that sometimes, meeting SD’s is part of the process.  Skype, text and verify his identity if need be. I know I probably sound snooty, but there have been multiple stories of Sugar Babies ending up in bad situations. If you decide to meet you SD where he lives, please be very cautious and careful. Stay safe gorgeous girls. I love you all.

Elsy  xoxo

Tip of the Day!


First of all, I’d like to say that this blog is purely from my own opinion and my own experiences. I live in NYC, so where I am may be a different ball game compared to where you are!

Recently, a SD looked through my blog and told me he disagreed with something I posted:

I don’t agree that a SD must give a $200-800 gift on the first date.

To me the first date is purely a meet and greet. Do we click in person as we have done online? Is there any interest for either of us to have a second date let alone an arrangement? etc.

My view is that people worry about what is ‘owed’ or what they have to do just for dinner, but add onto that $200-$800 and some women will feel the pressure to do things on the first date that they wouldn’t do normally.

I would rather not have that pressure. That doesn’t mean I don’t take care of any extra expenses (cab, car, etc. to get to the date) and even a small gift, but I personally don’t do it in the $ figure you are mentioning. Then again, I’m not in the NYC area, which I definitely understand is a different animal.
Thank you so much RW! It’s always refreshing to get a second opinion.  So ladies, if you SD doesn’t give you $$$, then don’t swear it too much. Just hope he pays for dinner!